Women are trouble (But i can't quit!)

[losmar]

MoP when i visit you this summer (i find about about Sweden the end of this week!!!!) am i NOT supposed to tell your girl about all these things you say

I will try being friends with them! I can still flirt with the Polish girl and hope she changes her mind eventually. Patience is the key, and i'm so patient with everything else, might as well be with this.

First part is funny.
Second part is all talk & no action... go for what you want!

[owly]

Make a move to fast you run the risk of blowing it and blowing the friendship with this girl as well. You know when the time is right. Then again if you wait to long you might miss the window of opportunity. My advise is to take is slow but not to slow. Every now and again flirt with her so she knows your interested.........

[MoP]

Make a move to fast you run the risk of blowing it and blowing the friendship with this girl as well.

The only thing blowing in this story will be the girl. She's Polish after all!

[Mickal Redwater]

Yea, well, she texted me drunk last nigh, around midnight. i had been at the Muse concert (who fricking rocked) and was hanging with my good friend (the other Belgian), and she said something along the lines of "What're you doing" so i responded with what i was doing, drinking a beer at a friends and she goes "oh, too bad, i was going to ask if you wanted to make out."
I was confused cause this is the girl who a few days ago said she just wanted to be friends. She was kinda drunk of course, but i eventually went home and she came over and we hung out for a few hours while she sobered up enough to drive home.

Nothing happened, cause i'm a gentleman and refuse to take advantage of a drunk girl, especially one who i obviously have to still see potential with. Don't make fun of my morals, once again, i did the right thing and i hope it pays off in the end

Don't get me wrong, we kissed plenty, and i treated her with respect and admiration.

So i think i'll win her over yet! However she's in mourning today as her country had a huge tragedy this morning

[Kenos]

getting hammered and ummm hammered is the polish thing to do in any situation

[Mickal Redwater]

Well final result of all this, because its finally to an end.

Polish girl and i are good friends and hang out all the time, but aren't sure if anything else will come of it, especially now.

The other girl, the redhead, and I have been kinda having this fling for months now. More emotional then physical, no sex, but basically anything else. Mostly we just cuddle and talk a lot. She hardly can come see me cause of strict persons (for good reasons sometimes, crazy for others) and i've been away, so much of our relationship was based on talking.

However she's very manipulative. MoP will confirm that. She uses me, she still sees her ex-boyfriend, texts him and calls him while visiting me. her ex is a jerk who basically hits her and treats her like crap and they fight every day about me. I told her to leave him and date me, she won't and she won't date me cause i'm not christian, however her sister says that even without believing in God, i'm much more a christian than that other jerk every would be (she is a firm believer that i'm the nicest guy in the world, which i think for the most part is true, i live my life trying to do only the best for everyone...).

So i've finally decided to end it. I've tried 2 times before, but every time she manipulates me right back into it. This time i must stand my ground and end it.

I hate being manipulated, but it happens too often. People take advantage of my good nature. I hope this goes well, i'm nervous. I really care about her and want ot see her get her life back on track, with or without me, i just worry that by me ending this she'll go back full-force to dating that jerk.

I hate hurting people. Doign the right thing when it hurts both partys always feels so wrong, even though I know its the right hting to do without any doubt.

[Venus]

i just worry that by me ending this she'll go back full-force to dating that jerk.

you arent responsible for her choices, she is.
you do what you have to do to make YOU happy. then let the rest fall in place.

[Immigrant]

you do what you have to do to make YOU happy. then let the rest fall in place.

precisely, which brings us back to:

The only thing [that should be] blowing in this story will be the girl.

(then dump her) *weg*

[Lady Maven]

Mickal, I am going to say this in the most loving way I can think of.

GET A FUCKING GRIP!!!!

You are young, hot, and not commited to ANYONE. You have done nothing more than kiss a girl and hang out. It isn't YOUR fault those girls were making out. It was just your job to enjoy the show. You aren't sticking your dick into every wet hole and fence post you can find. You have done NOTHING wrong or immoral. Don't start lying to these girls that they are the only one, and at least one of them has done you the same courtesy of letting you know you are not the only guy, and you are solid.

Enjoy life a little. You did not have 2 relationships. You hung out with two girls you kinda sorta liked. Nothing wrong or bad about it.

[Nagash]

I still think that you should just go on and say that you swaffled a church. That'll end things swiftly and cleanly, even if it is not true (yet).

The way you described that girl when you were over here confirms that she's mostly trouble. Find a girl which is not trouble. One of those tall blondes you fancy for example. We have them aplenty, and we even have intelligent ones. So do the Scandinavians. You're just in the worng part of the world: American blondes have as much plastic in the brain as they tend to have in their chests (no offense, but I like neither feats).

What you seem to need is a Northern European woman.

[MoP]

One of those tall blondes you fancy for example. We have them aplenty, and we even have intelligent ones.

A pity you tend to keep them locked up, hidden from anyone but their owners.

[Nagash]

Do we? I thought it was the Belgians who locked up girls in cellars.

[MoP]

Do we? I thought it was the Belgians who locked up girls in cellars.

That's Wallonia. Agreed, it is Belgium (for now), but you can't blame us for their mistakes. We don't make blame you for Friesland, do we?

[Nagash]

I'd rather be blamed for Friesland than for Wallonia.

[MoP]

I blame Gili for both.

[Nagash]

That's a bit much. Give the poor Gili a break.

[owly]

It feels so wrong to blame someone else when it feels so good to blame Gili

[Nagash]

Not when it comes to Friesland and Wallonia. That's just plain cruel.

[MoP]

He deserves it! He just got England lose to the Krauts.

And if that isn't enough to convince you: he kicked Italy out in the first round.

[Nagash]

That's not as bad as Friesland and Wallonia. Not by a long shot.